Dear friend,
Dating makes everyone feel funny, whether you’re 15 or 115, going out on your first date or rejoining the dating scene is still the same story….as sung by Dooly Wilson in Casablanca, dating is like a search for love and glory, and there really are some fundamental things that do apply.
We’ll lay some of them out to you today, not so you can be a stud muffin or the hottest kid on the block, but so that you can understand a bit more about yourself, your date to be, and the whole dating process.
Then maybe the old palms will sweat less, and believe it or not, you may actually have some fun.
After all,
Dating should be fun
It’s not like your whole life or livelihood depends on one date or several dates. The purpose of dating is simple:
Getting to know someone and letting that person get to know you so that you can decide whether you’re interested in spending any more time together.
Nothing more, nothing less!
Put aside the notion that you’re looking for a mate or a one night stand or someone to please your mom.
You’re just dating so that you can get to know somebody a little bit and let him or her get to know you.
So what are the ironclad follow-these-steps-and-you’ll-never-fail, step-on-a-crack-and-you’ll-break-your-mother’s-back rules of dating?
They don’t exist.
However, there are some guidelines, suggestions, and observations, but this whole experience is a bit free form since you’re unique and so is everyone you’ll ever date.
That way, if you’re having fun and your date is having fun, you’re going to want to do it again.
So why such sweaty palms if this is suppose to be fun?
Men and women have been getting together for thousands of years after all.
No, it’s not because you’re the nerd of the universe and everybody else is way cool. It’s because the way people date---their expectations and assumptions and goals—have changed with the times.
Adam and Eve were the original blind date
…..And we know who fixed them up. It’s been a lot rockier ever since (Ever wondered who Cain and Able dated?)
In the caves, dating was mostly about who had the biggest club (not that club. LOL) and could carry off the choice woman. Candy and flowers didn’t play a part in this process.
A few eons passed, and we moved from caves and plains to hamlets to villages to towns to cities, and our courting rituals evolved, but still dating really wasn’t allowed.
Marriages were arranged by families for political and economic reasons. Not only did women have no say, but neither did the men.
Today, not only do we get to pick who we want to date and eventually marry, but we get to audition them, which brings us to dating.
In its purest form, dating is auditioning for mating and auditioning means we may or may not get the part.
Not only has dating gotten complicated, woman can ask guys out, but mating has gotten really complicated as well.
And then there’s romance,
Truly the plague of the 21st Century. Romance has made expectations completely unrealistic.
With dating, we’re talking individual style…you and your little quirks, which are going to change over time and from person to person, at least a bit.
You are going to be a slightly difference soul depending on whether you’re going out with somebody you met at a bust stop, your best friend’s little sister, or your mom’s law partner’s nephew.
So don’t go for somebody else’s style!
If you’re determined to mimic your incredibly cool friend, adapt the moves to your style and your partner.
The key is to stay light on your feet, be willing to improvise, and believe down to the bottom of your toes that your style is the one that’s right for you….and if that hasn’t worked out so well in the past, this guide that we’re giving away to you for free can help you figure out what you need to do to fine-tune your style so that you’re cookin’.
Before you find yourself hyperventilating over the prospect of dating, remember that there is no single, right way to date or to ask somebody out.
And there is no such thing as a perfect experience that will make someone fall madly and passionately in love with you.
A date is a unicorn, an imaginary beast that is unique in every situation.
But don’t worry:
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